I’d like to call this meeting to order…

I’d like to open by thanking everyone for attending the 150th post of “Can’t Remember Diddly!”. I’m your president, vice-president, secretary, and treasurer. Here’s our agenda for the meeting today.

Reading and Approval of Minutes of the Last Meeting
Read ’em and weep.
All approved say ‘Aye’
[chorus of ‘Ayes’]
All opposed
[crickets chirping]
Minutes stand approved as read.
*raps gavel*

Treasurer’s Report
We have money; yet, somehow, we are still broke. Do not anticipate a change in this state of affairs in the forseeable future.
All approved say ‘Aye’
[chorus of ‘Ayes’]
All opposed
[crickets chirping]
Minutes stand approved as read.
*raps gavel*

Old Business

1. I am, of course, behind in my Google Reader to the tune of posts written about 4 days ago. A note, people; April’s Fool’s Day posts about authors intending to close their blog were not warmly recieved. Making me hyperventilate is, contrary to popular opinion, NOT amusing.

2. Exhibit C in “Tom’s a PRISSY girl” trial (title of trial amended by Miss Ann)

First, Deaf Mom found this and posted it on her blog and Hunky and I loved it.

And here is a resulting IM chat log between HunkyDory:
12:36:16 PM Hunky: who was the artist that you like so much. He does that song that is like an old hymn… I can’t remember his name
12:36:28 PM Dory: todd agnew, grace like rain
12:36:33 PM Hunky: I think the last name starts
12:36:36 PM Hunky: yeah, that’s it
12:36:45 PM Dory: would like to put together a signing present for it
12:37:22 PM Hunky: That would be cool.I want to do one for the Casting Crowns song “Who Am I”
12:37:27 PM Hunky: I love that song
12:37:33 PM Dory: i do too
12:37:47 PM Hunky: I think, I might be able tostay in key for that.
12:37:58 PM Dory: i would probably set them up pidgin sign instead of ASL since it’s for hearing people to see it
12:38:06 PM Hunky: well, yea
12:38:25 PM Hunky: it would be harder for people to follow if it were ASL
12:38:42 PM Dory: that’s why beautiful looked a little weird to you
12:38:46 PM Dory: they translated
12:39:00 PM Dory: “no matter what they say” to WHATEVER THAT
12:39:17 PM Hunky: heheh
12:42:13 PM Hunky: what is the sign for “because”?
12:42:34 PM Dory: right pointer hand across forehead
12:42:45 PM Hunky: that’s right
12:42:47 PM Dory: “pointer” to “x hand”
12:44:07 PM Hunky: That is a really beautiful song, especially in sign
12:44:27 PM Hunky: it makes me well up and get all verklempt
12:45:07 PM Hunky: n stuff
12:45:35 PM Dory: you girl
12:45:41 PM Hunky: I know
12:45:46 PM Dory: seriously?
12:45:48 PM Dory: you do?
12:45:53 PM Dory: *wrinkles nose*
12:46:00 PM Hunky: it makes my uterus ache:-)
12:46:07 PM Dory: *snickers*
12:46:12 PM Hunky: little bit, yeah
12:46:18 PM Hunky: srsly
12:46:27 PM Dory: i’m blogging that
12:46:39 PM Hunky: I’m never telling you that again
12:46:43 PM Hunky: anything
12:46:44 PM Dory: hahahahaha
12:46:46 PM Hunky: ever
12:46:51 PM Dory: LMAO
12:47:12 PM Dory: c’mon, that’s funny 🙂
12:47:22 PM Dory: you mad if I blog that?
12:47:30 PM Hunky: no
12:47:41 PM Hunky: I’m used to the world thinking I’m a girl
12:47:59 PM Hunky: you know better, usually
12:48:04 PM Dory: hahaha
12:48:58 PM Dory: I think after the last almost 14 years and especially last night, there should be absolutely no doubt that you are completely utterly hetero *waggles eyebrows*
12:50:22 PM Hunky: rowr!
12:50:37 PM Hunky: that’s what I’m sayin!
12:50:40 PM Dory: <>
12:50:55 PM Dory: < / growl >
12:51:12 PM Hunky: hahahaha

New Business

1. Our hot water heater purchased in 1994 finally went to the big home improvement store in the sky. It died after a long illness punctuated by an elaborate ruse of coaxing it to work each day. Aformentioned ruse would be perpetrated in this manner: one would announce loudly, “Guess I’ll take a shower now!” and turn on the water for at least one minute. Next, one would say dejectedly, “Well, never mind; no hot water today. I suppose I’ll just stink.” and leave the bathroom. Five minutes later, one would sneak in quietly and quickly turn water on again and pull up shower knob quickly as possible, and if the hot water heater wasn’t paying close enough attention, hot water would be dispensed forthwith. However, dispense was restricted to approximately 15 minutes, so if two were showering and one was also planning on shaving; too bad, so sad.

Wednesday night, I turned on the hot water faucet and didn’t get hot water as previously anticipated. Reported this to Hunky, who proposed we travel to Menard’s to purchase a new hot water heater. After much bitching and moaning on my part regarding my disappointment in spending tax refund monies towards home repairs, commenced with trip amongst consoling noises on Hunky’s part. Arrived at Menard’s and picked out said hot water heater, a 50 gallon with a 6 year warranty. In respect for our younger and/or familial readers, must censor Hunky’s comments regarding potential for more numerous acts of marital union in shower since this new 50 gallon is a step up from the old 40 gallon. My deepest and most abject apologies; it appears censor failed. At least it was polite.

Next up for discussion was where we were going to get a shower in the morning, since it was clear that I was not paying emergency night rates to get this bugger installed immediately. I volunteered to stay home and wait for the plumber to arrive thus negating my need for shower. Hey, if somebody needs to stay home from work and NOT have to get up before the butt crack of dawn, I’m your gal. I just give sacrificially like that.

So, $700 later, we are now proud owners of a duly installed brand spanking shiny new hot water heater. Oh, the joys never cease.

2. Went to the Decypher Down / Thousand Foot Krutch / Skillet concert Thursday night. I am 35 years old and I have a sore neck from head bangin’ and a warbly voice from screamin’. Have now properly trained my offspring in both important areas of development. Amen.

The lead singer told us how this song came about. He wrote it for a girl who was talking to him about how she would cut herself to escape. He’s married, so I think he wrote this like God is reassuring her that He’s always there.

Video of “The Last Night” -Skillet

Lyrics for my D/HoH pals:

You come to me with scars on your wrist
You tell me this will be the last night feeling like this
I just came to say goodbye
I didn’t want you to see me cry, I’m fine
But I know it’s a lie.
[Chorus:]
This is the last night you’ll spend alone
Look me in the eyes so I know you know
I’m everywhere you want me to be.
The last night you’ll spend alone,
I’ll wrap you in my arms and I won’t let go,
I’m everything you need me to be.
Your parents say everything is your fault
But they don’t know you like I know you they don’t know you at all
I’m so sick of when they say It’s just a phase, you’ll be o.k. you’re fine
But I know it’s a lie.
[Chorus]
The last night away from me
[Bridge:]
The night is so long when everything’s wrong
If you give me your hand I will help you hold on
Tonight,
Tonight.
[Chorus]
I won’t let you say goodbye,
I’ll be your reason why.
The last night away from me,
Away from me.

Upcoming Meetings:

Under construction are a couple posts; one on the construction of the new niece’s quilt and one on photoshop. Yeeee Haaaaaaaaaaa.

Do I hear a motion we adjourn?
[much clamoring for adjournment]

We’re adjourned.

It was like the Deaf leading the Deaf.

This lovely, glorious week is BOYLESS. It’s spring break, and the boys went out to Gramma’s (God bless her heart). Most Hawsum.

Hunky took Monday evening off to go out to dinner with me to our favorite steak place. Would you believe that I spent an entire dinner NOT cutting someone’s food, NOT getting up to fetch something, NOT raising my voice even once (actually, we signed the entire time), NOT leaving the table in complete and utter disgust, and (bonus plan, baby!) NOT ONCE did I have to utter any of the following oft-repeated phrases:

“Would you stop that!”

“Don’t fill up on milk. You’re not getting any more until your [insert vegetable here] is gone.”

“Oh, for the love, quit teasing your brother!”

“Don’t worry about the dog. Worry about you.”

“Don’t you dare chew until it’s so gross you throw up. I WILL just get you more.”

“Well, if you would ignore him, he would give up and quit teasing!”

“You took that much, you finish it.”

“That is disgusting! Knock it off!”

“Because I’m the mom. When you’re paying your own mortgage payment, you can make the rules.”

“What the… get up off the floor!”

“That was NOT the cat. Why can’t you go in the bathroom and do that?!”

It was heavenly.

After that, we were on our way over to WalMart to pick up a couple things, and I told Hunky I had to pick up some paint samples to take home and compare to the tub/sink and then bring back to pick out a new bathroom set that doesn’t clash. You’re all quite intelligent; I trust you can see where this is going.

Exhibit B in the whole “Tom’s a chick” trial.

Dory: So don’t let me forget.
Hunky: I’ll try.
Dory: I wonder what they were thinking when they picked that color out. It’s such a weird, gross mauve.
Hunky: [matter-of-factly] It’s really more of a coral than a mauve.
Dory: *looks at Hunky* *blink* *blink blink*
Hunky: I am just a big girl, huh?
Dory: *nods slowly and solumnly*

I swear I did not make that up. If I’m lyin’, I’m dyin’.

Last night, I went to deaf club dinner without having to worry about what to make the boys for supper and if the house would be standing when I got back. Then I went to a hockey game without refereeing my own fights up in the bleachers.

Tonight, I plan on doing absolutely as little as possible. Household chores can wait… I have a quiet evening ahead of me. There will be a wonderful glass of merlot and a book and/or a movie blissfully sans interruptions. Tomorrow night, we’re taking the boys back for a short time to take them to see Thousand Foot Krutch. Friday I’m going to go visit my new niece and then go to a CMA meeting. Saturday is an all-day activity for CMA. While I would prefer to have the entire day to myself, at least I don’t have to take the boys to the kids’ room and worry about who they’re going to emotionally scar forcibly apologize to for leaving dents where they’ve ricocheted off the walls.

Yesterday my manager came up to me, tapped me on the shoulder, and said, “Can you come over here with me?”

That was exactly what I was asked before I got laid off a few years ago. I instantly got wet pits and started hyperventilating. Then I remembered that the temp agency would just find me something else less like watching a video of How To Watch Paint Dry.

“I’m really sorry to bother you with this, but I need to have a quick meeting and we can’t find our interpreter. I hate to ask you to do this, but would you interpret for Elle?”

Elle is a friend I met in Deaf club. She works in the next department over. She’s full Deaf, and a really great ASL teacher to boot.

“I’ll sure try.”

So I stood right next to my manager, speechreading and interpreting simultaneously. Now, I’m kind of slow, but my vocab’s not too shabby. But at one point my manager said, “And we had a bunch of people call in sick; Jane, Mary, Tom, Dick, Harry, Ethel, Fred, Bertha…” (No, I don’t work at a nursing home – I just had to make up names.) I turned to Elle and signed – MANY PEOPLE CALL SICK – MANY MANY NOT SHOW-UP. My finger-spelling skills suck too much to even attempt to keep up with a long list of names. She knew. She just smiled.

Rip it, roll it, and punch it, dude. Friends don’t let friends drink and ride the EAC.

So, a rabbi and a bear walk into a bar…

Today when I picked up the boys from school, Rocky got into the car very upset and told me a classmate had been calling him names. I asked him what she called him, thinking I’d hear the standard “buttmunch” or perhaps “fart knocker.” Then I took a moment to feel a little bit guilty that HunkyDory watched a tad too much Beavis & Butthead when Rocky was a toddler. I sheepishly remembered the day we pulled up the back of his t-shirt collar to the top of his head and taught him to say, “I am Cornholio!” and run around the living room in circles. Good times, good times. *blinks* Wait, what? Ah, yes.

He said, “She called me a Jew, and I’m not a Jew, I’m a Christian. I tried to tell her they’re different, but she just kept yelling over me ‘Jew Jew Jew Jew’!”

Seriously?! WTH is this kid’s parents teaching her?!

I had a talk with Rocky to make sure that we were on the same page- calling someone a Jew is not an insult but it can get you in some deep, deep trouble, etc. etc. When I got home, I sent WFGT (Wonderful Fifth Grade Teacher to the uninitiated) an email.

——————————————
I think somebody needs to have a little talk with XXXX. Rocky said she was calling him a Jew like it was an insult. 1 – Rocky is a Christian, not a Jew. 2 – Calling someone a Jew is not an insult. 3 – Jews are good people. 4 – Calling someone a Jew in a sneery voice could possibly be construed as racist and could potentially get her punched in the mouth by a less tolerant person.

Thanks.
——————————————

Was that ok, emailing the teacher, or am I ‘That Parent’? I know that I would want to know if Rocky did something like that.

A couple weeks ago, WFGT asked if it would be OK if Rocky talked to the kids in the classroom about his ADHD and AS. She thought it would help if his classmates knew what he had, and hopefully they could better understand him and be more tolerant. I said that was fine with me if it was fine with him. Today, Rocky said he and WFGT had a discussion with the class where he disclosed that he has ADHD and AS, and what that’s like for him. When I asked him how that went, he sadly said “the other kids are being even more bossy with me”.

Faced with these two incidents that were causing my child such distress, the Mama Bear in me woke up from hibernation with a craving for Little Kid and Dumplings. Hearing Rocky’s troubles makes me want to waddle into that classroom, emit a deafening, hair-raising, soul-piercing Mama Bear roar, and then make a couple of those kids my first meal after my long winter’s nap.

But I realize that I’ve got to let him learn to advocate for himself, so I suppose I’ll just go back to my cave and hit the snooze button for another six weeks.

******

5:20am this morning.
My loving husband has gotten up with me. He’s either really brave or really stupid. Let’s go with brave.
I pull what I think is a green shirt out of the closet.

Hunky: Are you gonna wear that?
Dory: Um, yeah.
Hunky: If you’re thinking of wearing green for St. Patrick’s Day, that ain’t green.
Dory: It is too green!
Hunky: It’s really more of a teal or perhaps aquamarine.
Dory: Well, it’s in the green family.
Hunky: A raccoon is in the bear family, but that doesn’t make it a bear, now, does it?
Dory: You’re just a great big girl, arncha?

******

Rip it, roll it, and punch it, dude. Hawsum.

On the road again… just can’t wait to get on the road again…

Hey, folks; I apologize for the blazing mania in that last post. I get a little wonky when I’m PMSing. It usually swings the other way so I was just as surprised as you. *snorts* Usually I can keep the Can ‘O Crazy tightly lidded, but oops, a little leaked out.

Whirlwind trip to STL; down on Friday, back up on Sunday. Here’s the post-game highlights.

On the way to St. Louis
[HunkyDory passes a sign stating “<-- Eolia 2 miles"]
Dory: Did you see that town name? Eolia. E-OOOOOOH-leeeee-ah.
Hunky: Do you realize that name has only one consonant?
D: What, were vowels on sale on town-naming day?!
H: What if someone named their baby daughter that? You just know she’d hit middle school and the kids would call her Areola. Or just Nipple.
[laughing like 13 year olds]

A little later… [Dino has been talking non-stop for about three hours straight.]
D: Hey, Rocky.
R: [voice completely saturated with sarcasm] What, Oh Lord Of Everlasting Babble?! What else could you possibly have to say?!

[Boys camped out in Gramma and Grampa’s living room. Lights out. Hunky went in there to get a box of kleenex]
Hunky: [stage-whisper] Go to sleep. You are rotten little boogerheads.
Rocky: [doesn’t even miss a beat] Boing, Fwip.

We went to BodyWorlds3 which is very serious and educational and somber. I sent MelodyAnn a very naughty pic I took at the exhibit, because sometimes I’m 12. (Of what? Give you three guesses and the first two don’t count.) I’ll opt against posting it here now since I really am 35 most of the time. But I thought about it. I probably won’t be able to stand it and post it later anyway.

We got to see my folks’ new house and it was 72º most of the weekend. On the way home, we watched the temperature steadily plunge until we hit Iowa City where it was 34º and raining/snowing, which prompted a serious discussion on the possibility of a move to St. Louis.

On the way home…
[In the homestretch. Boys have resorted to telling each other really stupid jokes. Over and over and over.]
Dino: Knock Knock!
Rock: Who’s there?
Dino: Interrupting Cow!!
Rock: Interr–
Dino: MOOOOO!!!
[then they both got a serious case of the giggles and it all went downhill from there]

And, folks, I’m very happy to announce you helped me make it through February. For the last several years, February has been a very tough month for me to get through. The Black Monster usually gets the best of me, but not this year. I won, this year. Awesome. 🙂

Rip it, roll it, and punch it, dude. Watch out for the freezing rain, though. Road may be slippery when wet.

In which Hunky sweeps me off my feet once again.

Dory: [leafing through the Crossing Book Club Catalog] How can I become the woman of your dreams?
Hunky: Breathe in and out. You’re doing great.
Dory: No, really, what else can I do to be a better wife?
Hunky: Just keep up that breathing thing. That’s all.
Dory: [keeps leafing through the catalog]
Hunky: And take it in the ass.
Dory: [eyes get big and blink-blinkblink]
Hunky: [laughs until his face is red and slaps his knees] I love doing that to you.
Dory: Yeah, but that’s not bloggable.
Hunky: Oh, sure it is!

And so it is.

I’m so proud.

Post Chicago wrap up

Well, folks, winter went on a weekend long bender and threw up all over Iowa. And it has a nasty hangover.

All that snow that got dumped on us Sunday, 4-8 inches worth, is melting and it’s not pretty. There’s slush everywhere. And it’s supposed to get below freezing tomorrow and all that slush will be solid ice. And another 6-8 inches on top of that. Perfect.

Last night I was driving home from Chicago and just before we hit the state line, the snow started. What should’ve taken an hour took four. There were no lines to stay in; the game was Guess Where the Lane is and Pray the Passing Semis Don’t Kill You. It’s just great. The losers are easy to find. They’re the ones in the ditch or median. The winners are the ones that manage to stay on the road and live to tell about it.

I planned to be home in time for the start of the Superbowl, but I had to settle for listening to it on whatever AM station I could pull in. Just as the game was really getting interesting, I lost the station. And then my head exploded. Oh, wait, no; I just ran into the house, leaving all my belongings out in the car, and slid a little into the living room with my boots and coat still on. It looked a little like I was stealing second base.

Hunky: [quickly] We’re in the fourth quarter with two minutes 46 seconds to go Tombrady 14 Giants 10 and they have the ball.
Dory: [emphatically] Awesome. [crashes on the couch in rapt attention to the game]

Because we’re so mushy and romantic like that.

Anyone that drove by our house and glanced in the big bay window got treated to HunkyDory actually jumping up and down and screaming at the TV. But if they’re from around here, they weren’t surprised.

After
the game and post-game wrap-up is when we need to do the “I’m so glad you’re not dead in a ditch” “I missed you so much” “And this semi passed me and I might have soiled myself a little” “Mom, did you get me anything” thing.

Oh, and one more time… Suck it, tombrady. Ha Ha Haha Haaaaah.

Aaaaand highlights from the trip. Sorry, I don’t have any of me white knuckled, clenching the steering wheel, face against the windshield. But maybe next time.


Ikea five. *snap*

Not sure why, but I find this cart escalator quite fascinating.

Everybody wave at the Fabulous Brit Sisters!

Limo from dinner to party… fabulous.

Playing “Bullshit” in the bar.
Because we’re too old for the stumbling drunken barfing stupor thing, that’s why.

Mm mm mmmmmm, Raspberry Mocha Mocki…something or other. It’s a big cup of caffeine that tastes like a luscious after-dinner dessert, that’s all I need to know.

Quite possibly the best cheeseburger I’ve ever had in my life. Yeah, that’s the “Cheezburger Cheezburger Cheezburger” place made famous by SNL.

What a dreary day. Didn’t stop us from enjoying ourselves, though.

So there ya go. There’s more pictures if you’re bored.

I’m cooking up a PhotoShop post, coming soon to a computer near you! I’m sure you’ll all be on the edge of your seat, waiting with bated breath. Or not.

Rip it, roll it, and punch it, dude. Rock on wicher bad say-elf.

Wonderful Christmas Memories, my BUTT.

So… I thought, what we need is a Holiday Family Quality Time Activity. I decided that we could make a double batch of Chex Mix together. Afterward, I thought, what I really needed is A Healthy Dose Of Reality. Because for a minute I forgot that we’re completely incapable of making poignant holiday Kodak moments. Oh, well. Witness the festive dysfunction.

Let me start out by saying, my point-and-shoot takes really fantastic pics. If by fantastic, you mean, taking pictures that look either like they were inside a deep bat infested cave or on the surface of the sun. Photoshop is my BFF. I don’t get out much. That said, let’s proceed with the merriment.

It all starts out very bright and shiny.
The table is clean, the boys are on their very best mediocre behavior,
and I haven’t cried or done any shots. Yet.
“Cheeeeeeeese!”

Let’s start out by putting the dry ingredients together.
Within one minute, Dino wandered off.
“Mom, why are we measuring? Why can’t we just dump it all into one big bowl?”
“Because… because I said so. Where did your brother go?”
“I don’t know.”
“Dino, get back in here, dammit!”

The battles begin.
“I want to put in the Chex.” “No, I want to put in the Chex!”
“No fair!” “Shut up!”
“I am going to take this box of Chex and
cram it right up your dookyhole
if you don’t quit fighting.”

Hunky reminds me that this is supposed to be fun and
we are making Wonderful Christmas Memories.
I clench my teeth behind the “smile”.
“Yeah, yeah; sure, sure; just take the friggin’ picture already.”

I blow my referee whistle and remind them that there is still time
to take all the presents back to the store.
The sudden quiet allows me to lay down the law.
“Ok, you can put in that Chex, and you can put in that Chex,
and you can put in the pretzels, and you can put in the nuts.”

The kitchen buzzes with activity. The war is in a temporary truce.
I inhale and exhale for the first time since we started.
“I’m trying to make Wonderful Christmas Memories for you here.
Let’s try to get along so we can make some
damn Wonderful Christmas Memories!”

I doggedly plod on and start putting the butter and spices together.
[buzz of busy activity]

I ask Hunky to shake it (the dry mix, not his pockets) like a
poloroid picture while I slowly pour the wet stuff in.
Hunky wisely wastes no time in obeying my every whim.
Rocky snatches up the abandoned camera and
captures the edge-of-your-seat action.
“Pour it slower.”
“Shake it faster.”
[Barry White voice] “Slower, baby.”
“I want you so much right now.”

I’ve poured the evidence of our weird family dynamics (i.e. the first batch)
into the pans and started on the second batch. Notice the natives have deserted.
[humming] “Gramma got run over by a reindeer…”

Oh, God help me, they’re back. And wired for sound. Notice Dino’s eyes.
That amount of energy in one child is quite the spectacle to behold.
[electrical buzzing of energy]

They start running around the house trying to test their theory
that if they run fast enough, the camera can’t catch them. True story.
[click]
“Was I a blur then?” “Can I see the picture?”
“Dang it, we have to try it again faster!”

This time I move fast enough the camera can’t catch me.
I go the cupboard for alcohol.
[racetrack sound fx]

I breathe for the second time since we started, in anticipation
of the holiday joy that is Eggnog with a Double Shot of Kahlua.
The boys continue to test their theory.
I stand oblivious; I’m gettin’ my holiday drink on, baby.
[zoooom… brakes screech]
“Was I a blur then?” “Can I see the picture?”
“Dang it, we have to try it again faster!”

Rocky buzzes with energy. He looks like he may be close to exploding, does he not?
I contemplate beaning him with the bottle, but that would be alcohol abuse.
“Don’t test me, boy. I can make another one just like you.”

Finally. It’s just me and my creamy, nutmeg-y, alcoholic friend.
[twisting cap breaks safety seal]

Dino continues the research for the “faster than the camera” theory.
“Back off, kid; Mom’s busy. Oh, yeah. Come to mama.”

Hunky enjoys eggnog sans Kahlua.
I’m having a difficult time fathoming the point of Kahlua-less eggnog.
“No, I will not smile. I’m very gruff and rugged and manly.”

Hunky gets Rocky to try eggnog. Will he like it?
[audience holds collective breath]

I think that’s a no.
“BLEK!”

Hunky breaks gruff and rugged and manly character.
“Now that’s funny, I don’t care who ya are!”

Now Hunky says Dino has to try eggnog.
He reassures him it is quite tasty; Dino remains a skeptic.
“Awwww, do I hafta?” “Yes, you certainly do.”

Dino employs an oft-attempted stalling tactic. It goes over like a fart in church.

Yes. Down the hatch.”
“But this is my new Bionicle and his name is…”
NOW.”

Dino sees the futility of the maneuver and reluctantly complies.
[audience holds collective breath]

Dino dittos Rocky’s vote. Hunky empathizes.
Final Tally: Boys, 2; Eggnog, 0.
“YUCK!” “Yuck.”

Rip it, roll it, and punch it, dude. Drive at night so the kids sleep through part of the trip. Or invest in a good mini DVD player with headphones.