Her response

Just to let you know that I did get your e-mail.. I really don’t have time to discuss right now because like always I have two jobs. I will try and contact you later tonight Because I don’t work the club. We have a lot of disagreements I know and this can be easy or ugly for the both of us. I do thank you for my clothes and I will return your boxes. I do however really really need my winter jacket and suit jacket for work. It is going to get really cold soon and I hope that I don’t have to put off your ‘bill’ anymore to be able to buy another winter jacket. I don’t want any foul words tonight. I won’t to discuss the facts and yes I am willing to FACE them no problems.

Talk to you later

CAL

I responded:

>Just to let you know that I did get your e-mail.. I really don’t
>have time to discuss right now because like always I have two jobs.

that’s a little jab there bcus you’re working and i’m not. thanks.

>I will try and contact you later tonight Because I don’t work the
>club.

you can try to contact me by phone but i’d appreciate it if you did
not come over tonight. I have plans tonight and also tom will be
here so it would really not be a good night at all. when we talk,
i’d rather not have either tom’s or chris’s presence there. I think
that’s fair to both of us.

>We have a lot of disagreements I know and this can be easy or
>ugly for the both of us.

are you threatening me?

>I do thank you for my clothes

you’re welcome

> and I will
>return your boxes. I do however really really need my winter jacket
>and suit jacket for work.

I found your suit jacket and a howe military jacket and a tweety
jacket in the front coat closet. I don’t see any other winter
coats.

>It is going to get really cold soon and I
>hope that I don’t have to put off your ‘bill’ anymore to be able to
>buy another winter jacket.

oh give me a break. you haven’t had a problem putting me off
the whole time you lived here.

>I don’t want any foul words tonight.

excuse me to pieces for being a little shocked to even see you. I
haven’t seen you for a month and all that time I’ve had to sit and
stew and wonder why in the hell you are ignoring me when all I
want to do is work things out. I didn’t get the email from you so
all of the sudden here you are and I have to deal with you. It
would have been much better if you had picked up the phone
and warned me that you were coming and what you had in mind
and we could have discussed that then. all this time I wanted to
talk with you so bad about this but you wouldn’t talk to me and i
was so frustrated. My gut reaction was intense anger. I will make
a sincere attempt to avoid foul words. but that sounded so
condescending of you to even say that, bcus i’ve certainly heard
you swear to rival a sailor.

>I
>won’t to discuss the facts

I am assuming you mean you WANT to discuss the facts.
whatever that means. I think it means that you don’t like to
hear me tell you how I feel, bcus you don’t want to deal with
hearing about my hurt feelings. it’s just easier for you to be cold
and close this chapter of your life bcus you don’t value me as a
friend. if you read my email, that’s all I have to say to you, and
I can’t imagine that you have anything to say to me. it stopped
being about the money a long time ago. it was about you
abandoning me with no notice for no darn good reason. so I
don’t even know what we would have to discuss. You pay your
bill, I let you have all your stuff. End of discussion.

> and yes I am willing to FACE them no
>problems.

and I have no idea what this means either. you haven’t faced
our problems yet, why start now? the only thing that I would
appreciate hearing from you is “i’m sorry for treating you badly”

and we both know that won’t ever happen bcus you’re so
cold that you don’t really care if you have abandoned me and
hurt me. Somehow you’ve justified it in your mind and you think
you haven’t treated me badly at all. with friends like you, who
needs enemies?

>
>Talk to you later

whatever. bye.
Dory

>
>CAL
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